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20. What changes should we expect to see immediately after the intensive, and then what gradual changes after that, and in what time frame? |
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Immediately, you will see your child in a different light. No longer will he seem so distant and rejecting, but more open to you and affectionate. The outbursts should more than likely dissipate entirely during the first 30 days. After about thirty days it would depend on your follow-through as parents. If you continue to address his stress when it appears in his behavior, you will rarely, if ever, see another outburst. Instead, you will see signs of frustration and hear statements of feelings. You will feel stronger as a parent and more empowered to help your child with his emotions. You and your spouse will experience closeness on a level that has not been felt in a long time, and the same will be true for other family members. Most of this should be present by the last day of the intensive. I work hard to establish a foundation for the parents to build on. I will make several recommendations to you concerning your child. I would predict that in six months you would be in a very good place as a family, and in a year you will be well into the healing process. It's not miracle work. Sometimes it seems like it because it's so powerful, but it is very hard work and requires follow-through and support. I will actively provide the support.
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