Category Archives: Foster Children

The Monster in the File Cabinet

We just need to do something different. I got a call from a mom who [...]

Be the Calm

Being the calm in the storm of our children’s life is one of the greatest [...]

The Attachment Dance Exercise

Any time you interact with anyone you care about — you do a subtle attachment [...]

What Age is Our Parenting Approach Geared To?

Parents sometime ask us about age for a love based parenting approach. Although your approach [...]

On Healing Trauma

Trauma is defined as any stressful event which is prolonged, overwhelming, or unpredictable. In his [...]

Adoption Versus Adoptive: Labels Can Hurt or Help

This excerpt is taken from Module 1 of the 16 Week A-Z Parenting I was [...]

Giving Unconditional Love Even When It’s Not Easy

 Kenneth Ginsburg M.D. wrote an article for Psychology Today titled Giving Unconditional Love Even When [...]

What is the greatest gift you can give your children?

We often think about giving to our children, our loved ones, but perhaps less about [...]

Anger: Don’t Suppress, Express!

We had a mom tell us what happened when she “let her daughter give it [...]

Would You Go This Far for Your Child?

New paradigm parenting requires, well, a new model of doing, thinking, evaluating, appreciating, considering parenting [...]